Body Talk: How to Deal with Negative Comments

A few weeks ago, I visited a friend I had not seen for quite some time. As she greeted me, one of the first things out of her mouth was: “You’ve gained weight, haven’t you? You didn’t have that chubby face last time.” As you no doubt have guessed from some of my previous posts, […]

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Some Answers I Have about “Erotic Capital”

This post is in response to Rachel Hills’ intriguing Tumblr post “Some Questions I Have About Erotic Capital.” In this piece (a response itself to Catherine Hakim’s book, funnily enough), she asks her readers several questions about ideas of beauty and body positivity. Here’s a breakdown: 1. Is valuing beauty the root of the problem […]

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Body Image Acceptance: A Journey, Not Just a Goal

It takes quite a bit of time to appreciate my body sometimes. I look at myself in the mirror, typically from the side, and cringe at the droop in my belly. I look at my face and pick out all the small pimples. And, some days, my hair just makes me want to shave the […]

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